Okay, so I normally don't like to write two journals within 24 hours, but this is just really pissing me off.

So for Thanksgiving, my aunt was supposed to come up from New Jersey, and bring her fiancee Rob, and Lexie. But now, Rob's ex-wife has decided she's going to China (not kidding) for Thanksgiving, leaving Rob with their 15 year old daughter. And apparently, Rob's daughter doesn't want to come up here for Thanksgiving, so now it's just going to be my Aunt and Lexie.

So, time out for a second.

She doesn't want to come? She doesn't want to meet the people who are going to be her family? Her father is marrying my aunt- my mom is going to be her aunt, my step-dad is going to be her uncle, my grandparents are going to be her grandparents, and I'm going to be her cousin. And she just doesn't want to meet us?

It's not like she's a shy person- trust me, I've heard enough about her to know that. So this is all just because she decided she doesn't want to meet us. And that's ridiculous. Last year, I went to Minnesota for Thanksgiving, and met Victor's entire family, not just a couple people. And I was 13. She's 15. And I didn't go because I wanted to go sightseeing in Minnesota. I went because my mom wanted to meet Victor's family. That's just something you do for your parents, because you want them to be happy. I'm not exactly a selfless person, but I know that Victor makes my mom happy, so I went. And they weren't even engaged like my aunt and Rob are.

And has she stopped to think about the fact that now my aunt has to go on a train with Lexie by herself? Does she not get how hard and stressful it is to travel with a baby, even with another person? How can she be okay with doing that?

It just boggles my mind. I'm surprised my aunt is even still coming. I just don't get how someone cares so little about the family they have now, and the family they will have. I really don't. Does anyone else understand this? Or is it really as fucked up as I think it is?